"I learned this, at least, by my experiment: that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” ― Henry David Thoreau, Walden
So I helped a butterfly today. I came across it on a sidewalk. I had almost accidentally stepped on it and observed it to see whether it was alive or dead. It didnt move or anything and was kinda just laying on its side and so aside from having the need to take a picture of it (oh me being shutter happy) the fact that people kept walking by it which also meant that someone could easily walk by and kill it if it were still alive forced me to take action sooner than later. Thankfully there were bushes around so I quickly got a leaf and bent down to see if its legs would respond. They did of course but it didn’t try to actually climb on to it so I put my hand near its legs and it got on my hand and as I carried over to the bushes all I could think of was this poem that I found out about when I was a child:
” Happiness is like a butterfly;
the more you chase it,
the more it will elude you,
but if you turn your attention to other things,
it will come and sit softly on your shoulder “
- Henry David Thoreau
And so I was thinking, while carrying it, is this butterfly a physical representation of my happiness at the moment? Is it supposed to symbolize anything?
I am going through a relatively recent breakup but if I were to look at the butterfly as a symbol of my happiness would it mean that my happiness might be broken right now, that it might take some time to heal but if I were to just pick myself up and comfort myself everything will be fine?
Don’t let societal norms bring you doen. Don’t let others ideas of masculinity and feminity morph your own opinion of those things either.
Define masculinity for yourself.
First and foremost be true to yourself.
If you feel that (like my boyfriend) bringing pleasure to someone else in of itself brings you pleasure then whats so wrong about that?
Its what gets you off so obviously you would need someone in your life that wants you to bring pleasure to in any kind of way lol.
This post was a lot more starter than my usual ones but I feel that this needed to be said, this sites lacks male submissive things in general I don’t know what happened to all lf them but it makes me kind of sad.
You don’t have to be a DOM if your male and you don’t have to be a sub if your female.
So this is a Facebook conversation I had with my friend about the movie Frozen. Jay is my friend and El is me of course lol. This is of course strictly my opinion and I don’t really care if you disagree with me or not. Its your opinion and this is mine.
El: Oh and I watched Frozen, did not like that movie at all
Particularly from guys that I’m slightly interested in on a D/s level and I’m trying to figure out if I wanted to meet up with them in person and have a little fun ;D
I think why that particular phrase turns me off so much is that to me it feels as though the person saying it doesn’t exactly know what they want done to them themselves.
I want someone who is confident with their submission to tell me in explicit detail what they want me to do to them/done to them and realize that its up to me to decide whether or not I would do any of those things and when I would do them (of course).
I do enjoy vulgarity. And even if someone’s shy about its still pretty hot to hear you tell me about all the things that you’ve ever fantasied about or wanted done to you by someone.
And I’m the type of person that could pretty much go for anything except scat play and maybe cuckolding (that one depends really).
Honestly I just want a guy that is courageous enough to tell me he likes me and is also confident enough in their sexuality to tell me want he wants and know that it would be up to me whether or not I would do any of those things he wants lol. ( I kind of feel like I repeated myself here lol but trying to get a point across XD)